Spews Just In

  I have been on both ends of the stigma-stick called "feeling sorry for someone else because you think they're stupid and crazy and wouldn't want to be them." I was in the wrong when I was the one feeling sorry for someone "stupid" or "crazy" and not wanting to be them because of that. I know firsthand that it's hell to have others treat you like you're stupid or crazy. No one needs or deserves that demeaning treatment. And no one is stupid or crazy. Now I feel sorry for them because of the way they get treated.

  That perfect friend you wanted with you to understand you perfectly the whole time is there, or you wouldn't know/remember them enough to want them. That person's name is God but you can call them whatever and they won't mind. They're everyone's cosmic mate/spirit guide in addition to everyone's human cosmic mates and other spirit guides being there. The connection to God is all along each soul's infinite existence both time-wise and space-wise. Where we go, God goes. God understands us and thus the need for equality/equity, and the acknowledgement of everyone's permanent infinite equal sentience. Why CAN'T a person be a socialist/communist and believe in God? Doesn't mean we believe in hierarchy or that we're blindly following anything; it just means we know others we can't see with out human eyes are literally there with us even when we're supposedly alone.

  All matter needs everything and in this way has it... everything eternalizes everything's sentience.

  Life and love are the same thing underneath. (I mean REAL life, not a subsistence life.) People who argue whether life is more important than love or whether love is more important than life are both right... both meaning the same thing but thinking the other person means the opposite. The "love is more important" people think the "life is more important" people think a subsistence life is more important than love, when that is not what the "life is more important" people meant. And the "life is more important" people think that by the word "love," the "love is more important" people meant romance or sex or a specific kind of love, or fake/forced relationships, or abuse disguised as or called love, when that is NOT what the "love is more importnat" people meant by love. We all mean the same thing underneath.

  Evil isn't a thing, it's a lacking. A lacking by a soul of love/happiness/pride/security/conscious knowledge/connection/being truly found aka understood aka seen aka touched by enough other souls. Evil is done due to ignorance/shame/guilt/fear/hopeless feelings and assumptions/unhappiness... the lack of knowledge/love/happiness/pride/security/connection/other souls truly touching or finding or seeing or understanding them. them. We are all forced into temporary ignorance at times from our position in the universe that is our doing but not our fault, and we have all, over the course of our infinite existence of more than one life, done terrible things as a result. Nobody should, can, or will be permanently condemned. It is neither okay nor possible. In that sense, I'm OK and you're OK. It doesn't mean hang out with your abusers or force or fake relationships. It means respecting/loving everyone whether from a distance or not. It means not ruining or ending anyone...

  Why the labels?? The only negative trait that isn't temporary, isn't just a part of one and isn't superficial is: the universal fact that we are all sentient loving capable beings underneath totally and all the time. Nobody is evil. We all have done terrible things and neglected to do good things we should have done to prevent the terrible things. We all did our terrible things because ignorance of why it wasn't worth it was forced on us by our circumstances. Nobody is stupid. Everyone has a rich inner life. Not outwardly expressing never means not experiencing. Nobody is crazy. What is crazy? Many psychiatrists act crazy, condoning torture and such, yet they're in charge of deciding who's crazy? Nobody is universally unwanted. Everyone is loved and needed by someone... even if they haven't found those people in the flesh on this planet yet. Nobody is universally disliked. Everyone has their own people somewhere. No one is the only one like themself. No o...

  One cannot RESPECTFULLY insist that certain people should not exist or should be tortured for any reason. Because wishing people dead or never born, or wishing them intolerable pain or humiliation or shame/guilt (the latter three are always intolerable), is incompatible with respect. If you believe that torture or dehumanization is ever okay, I respect you as a person but I don't respect that opinion of yours. And I don't have to. It doesn't mean I'll harass you about it, I just won't support anything to do with that opinion.